How can I schedule a session?
My sessions, due to a hectic schedule, are available exclusively by advanced appointment only. Please be so kind as to send a 'thoughtful' email with your request, including your FULL name (no alias names, please), work number, cell number and a little bit about why you think I would be a good match for your session. My reservations form must also be completed.
If I send the full amount as you request, and I can't make the session, what happens?
Unfortunately, I cannot provide refunds or returns. Once a client confirms their date, I immediately book space for their session. I book and pay in 'advance' for either medical suite or Temple usage in advance, so it is impossible to receive a FULL refund. In some instances I USED to be ABLE to OFFER a partial refund BUT CANNOT ANY LONGER...IF A CLIENT CANCELS, there are no returns of monies or refunds GIVEN...HOWEVER, I can move the Session to a LATER DATE ONLY.
Will you be adding more photos to your photo gallery?
Yes...I typically change ALL website photos every few months, especially if there is a weight fluctuation change or a hair colour change (VERY frequently).
Do you have any hobbies? What do you do with your spare time?
Hum...spare time...very limited! I enjoy photography, sailing, car races, dogs, antiquing, hiking, reading, poetry, walking, soccer and more. Too many things to list.
Where do you see your clientele?
I see clients at my Temple suite location in Westchester NY. I sometimes will see devotees at their homes, offices or hotels (if they are traveling), after secure verification AND PAYMENT IN FULL prior to our session.
Do you see many clients?
No, I see very few clients. I see only genuine seekers and those with a sincere interest in Tantra.
How much money is needed in order to book a session?
I require FULL PAYMENT mailed to my office, which can be in the form of personal or business check or money order. Please be sure to send fee for the session via courier or any overnight service as paper methods must clear my bank first.
How much notice do you need for appointments?
Due to my business schedule and family, I need at least four days, up to a month. Same day and next day appointments are not possible. For clients wishing to visit me, I need at least a week to secure Temple space for a session.
Why do you verify your clients?
Simply stated...a client is merely a stranger that has placed an Internet inquiry. I verify for a number of reasons....mostly for safety and also to make sure Tantra is what the client really needs or wants. I also verify to make sure we are on the same page...if we are not, we can't work together. I also verify for compatibility and unique match.
I submitted an appointment form, but I have not heard anything. Why?
If you have submitted an email request for an appointment and it mentions sex or asking for illegal activities, I will not respond...those get deleted. IF you have submitted a form, and it was missing a LOT of information and/or the information was false and not verifiable, I will not respond. In addition, one line requests without proper verifiable ID are deleted. Not everyone requesting a session will actually have the opportunity to share in the experience with me. I advise all interested clients to PLEASE send a thoughtful opening note with biography, telling me a little bit about themselves and why they are seeking my services. First impressions go a long way, and I can always tell if a potential client is wasting my time....or not. In the event that any of the above does not pertain to you, please submit the form again. It was possible that it could have been lost in cyberspace. After form submission, if you do not receive a "Thank You" note page, it means the form did not go through to my email, and must be resubmitted.
Do all sessions start with tea and discussion?
Yes, all do.
I wish to book a TANTRA for Mens session, where can I find out what this entails?
You can find this information, along with rates, on my Sessions & Love Offerings page. IF something is unclear, please, by all means...let me know:)
Are your rates subject to negotiation?
No, sorry. If you feel my offerings are too high, please do look around. My services are superb, and merely reflect the quality of what you will receive in a session with me.
I wish to get my partner a gift. Do you offer gift certificates?
Yes, I do. HOWEVER, I would make sure you discuss TANTRA with your partner first...see his/her initial reaction, and then you may contact me for payment arrangements and my mailing address. I do not recommend 'surprise' sessions however, as this MAY not be what the other person really wants...try to see by hinting OR openly discussing it. I would hate to see an uncomfortable party on the receiving end, at one of my sessions. Please be open with your significant other, and then let me know.
I have never had a TANTRA session before...what can I expect?
Please see my Offerings page. All in all, a session with me will give you the opportunity to let go of all activity for several hours and entrust yourself to my sensitive and caring hands. As your Goddess and Guru, I offer full attentiveness and will care for your well-being, body and soul.
I would enjoy booking a couples session. Is there any interaction from you?
I can work as a TANTRIC guide for each of you, offer a four handed session with one of the partners, and more. Whatever you both feel most comfortable with is what you will receive. I can also guide each partner during the session, and then have the other partner of the "couple" switch. There are endless possibilities in a couples session. This is always planned in advance, but sometimes at the actual "session" things can change. It all depends on the couple and how secure they are with the love they share for each other and how they feel about a female instructor being with them in the same room acting as a facilitator for guidance. From past experiences, I have not had any bad flowing sessions with couples. I enjoy working with them no matter what position I undertake at that time. Another option for couples would be where I work with one of the parties on day I, another on Day II, with Day III being the group session and closing discussions, however this is much more costly, and not everyone has the expendable funds to do this. With couples, the end should include a warm talk and discussion where we can share the experiences openly, and well-being each feels. We can also discuss special wishes prior to AND after the session, as well as the possibility of another session in the future.
Are you nude during TANTRA?
Sometimes yes, or no...depending on the session. If I DO offer a session partially or fully nude, please note that my nudity is an expression of respect, veneration of the human body and the body of the recipient in particular. Being nude allows me to be in the same "space" as the clients I am working with and also makes them feel more at ease.
Do you offer full service during TANTRA?
This question often comes up since the space between the person and myself or the couple and myself is quite passive. Active intimacy during TANTRA draws a very fine and questionable line. Unfortunately, full service is not available during the session even though many lustful feelings can arise during this journey on my clients end, not mine. It is not proper protocol to offer escort service for a Tantra professional.
Why do you have partially nude photos on your site?
People in general are very 'visual' creatures by nature. I see nothing wrong with the display of nudity, especially when done in good taste. One should not mistake my choice of partially nude photos with a full service session, ever. There are places/people on the Internet that do offer full service...I am not one of them.
Do you keep my personal information that I give you?
No, not at all. I will, however, only IF a client wishes for me to keep their name and number on file. This is totally up to the client. I do not sell or share a clients information. A clients anonymity is of the utmost importance from the start to finish, to way AFTER our session. I am highly discreet, and respect the decision of the client. I take special care to ensure discretion AND to guarantee their undisturbed enjoyment. Anything I do is done in a way that ensures a clients privacy. I respect that privacy, and in turn, I expect ALL clients to respect mine.
Do I need to fill out a Reservation form?
Yes...my life precludes me from seeing new clients who are not forthcoming with their information. I am not an escort offering sex...I merely offer Tantra sessions. I can't be flexible with regard to my criteria for seeing new clientele. Also, TANTRA is not all I do for a living. I have a business, a position in the community and a family. We pretty much all agree that those who are not forthcoming are basically trying to hide something.
You seem particular about who you offer TANTRA to. Why?
Because TANTRA is an offering which I give openly to you and takes much time to plan. I do not simply toss some ceremonies together to make up for the time requested by my client. I listen CAREFULLY and fully, AND talk MANY times to a client beforehand, as well as listen to and respect all involved, their sacred space and upcoming TANTRIC journey. I only offer TANTRA to serious learners...this is why I am particular on who enters my temple. My motto is "serious learners only need inquire." As mentioned on a prior page, inquiries that do not include a REAL first and last name, location and two phone numbers are deleted. I am not a fan of of one line requests, and will not respond to them. I offer TANTRA to serious minded and interested individuals, and thank goodness for my good intuition because I can tell by a person's initial inquiry as to whether or not they are wasting my time.
Do you need to verify me even if I am a LONG standing client?
Yes...sometimes...A clients information can change during the years. It is important that I have current and up to date accurate records.
I have seen other Goddesses, can I use them as a reference?
You may, however, if they are old references, your other Goddesses may not remember you. Please always be sure to ask them first if you can use them as a reference, and you would need to tell them that they will be receiving a call and/or email from me.
Being I have a lot of references, that means I do not need to fill out an appointment form, right?
No. I do not base who I see for TANTRA solely on other Goddess references. IN fact, I do not base any of my decisions on references from others. I like to gather my own business information. I can't be flexible with regard to my verification processes.
I would like to bring a gift to my goddess...what do you like?
Gifts are not necessary, but if you must, I love large scented candles, fluffy ultra large towels, velour bath robes, Emu Oil and Grapeseed Lotion/oil. Although monetary gratuities after your session are not a requirement EVER, I graciously accept them.
May I bring wine to my session?
No...I have a no alcohol/no drug policy. Anyone bringing illegal substances or alcohol to a session will cause our session to end. Anyone under the influence of anything is prohibited. If you are on prescription medications and need to bring them, you may of course...but no drugs of any kind, alcohol or cigarettes. You may smoke after the session (outside), but not during.